There's too many places to cruise on campus. Just when I get used to avoiding one, another one pops up, right under my nose.

Here's how it works. At first all the guys that go to a cruisy restroom are all young college guys. Then the old guys from off campus start coming 'round. This scares off the young guys, who quietly go somewhere else. So the cruisy places multiply. It's easy for me to resist the temptation to go to the places where it's only older guys: I've had so many of them, and the excitement is just not that strong any more. But when I come across one that's all younger guys, well, I haven't had a lot of them, and the temptation is harder to resist.

It's all very distressing.